Widows in West Africa bonded by faith and community are evidence of God’s restorative love

By Susan Akyeampong

Across West Africa, widows often confront a brutal reality. Ostracised by some traditions, they can be left feeling isolated and vulnerable. Widows are more likely to face discrimination and economic hardship, with a staggering 1 in 10 widows globally living in extreme poverty. As Marthe Chantal Ngoussa, President of the Cameroonian charity Widows in Distress, says, “The death of the widow begins with the death of the husband.”

Recognising the challenges faced by widows, SIM’s Dorcas West Africa ministry steps in to bridge the gap. Although they offered microloans to women in difficult situations; the Dorcas team recognise that true support goes beyond material needs and their approach has evolved significantly. Their ministry blends the gospel message into all aspects of their work, providing both spiritual growth and practical support.

Remarkably, the widows themselves are the driving force behind the project within each Dorcas church group. They’ve fostered a life-giving family, which in turn, breaks down societal barriers. Lucia, a Project Manager at Dorcas West Africa, has witnessed this transformative power firsthand. There’s a lively WhatsApp group chat that Lucia started. It’s so active with daily encouragement, jokes, memes, and positive conversations that she barely needs to participate herself. Widows who initially feared joining a group filled with despair instead discover a vibrant and faith-filled community.

I really want us to grow deep.

Dorcas is a family affair for Lucia. Following years of missionary work in Niger with her husband, Lucia took over leadership of Dorcas West Africa at her mother’s request. Lucia’s mother, now 87, still works for the ministry she founded in 2006 after becoming a widow herself. This deep connection runs through Dorcas’ leadership.

The three women heading the project in different countries are all friends, some knowing each other from family ties or Bible college back in the early noughties. Lucia believes this familiarity fosters strong collaboration – “Instead of growing wide across different countries, I really want us to grow deep” she tells me. This is also why there is an emphasis on the individual’s personal growth and spiritual development. This close-knit network has allowed for peer support and effective training.